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the extreme end of the spectrum are at risk. While it is just a small percent who are prone to commit violent crimes, we should pay attention to this group for, as criminologists Jack Levin and James Alan Fox (1985), Ken Magid (1988), and Joel Norris (1989) point out, adoptees are overrepresented in the criminal justice system and adopted serial killers have become household names.
Despite a wealth of clinical data and many replicated
studies, with consensual validation among most mental health professionals
in the adoption field indicating that adoptees are at greater
psychological risk (Steed, 1989), them is still controversy about
whether or not children of adoption are more vulnerable/at risk
for emotional problems. Authors such as adoptive parent Elizabeth
Bartholet (1993), adoptive father/sociologist William Feigelman
(1986), adoptive mother Florence Klagsbrun (1986), and adoption
agency lobbyist William Pierce (1990) all argue/maintain that
adoptees are not any more prone to suffer from emotional/psychiatric
problems than non-adopted individuals.
Adoption per se does not necessarily give
rise to psychopathology. It must, however, be considered a risk
factor, perhaps a precipitating one, in some families that are
dysfunctional in terms of core adoption issues and parent-child
interactions. Fortunately, not one of the hundreds of adoptees
treated in my practice has ever killed anyone (thank G-d), though
they all presented issues of loss, identity, anger/rage, etc.,
similar in kind, if not degree, to the twenty forensic cases who
did act out in homicidal violence. What differentiates the few
who kill from the vast majority of adoptees who work-through their
issues of loss, abandonment, and identity and go on to lead productive
lives? Why in these extreme cases is there pathological mourning,
and an ultimately Fatal Quest instead of the healing,transformation,
and new beginning that is often seen so dramatically, especially
in the psychoanalytic treatment of adoptees? What can be learned
from these cases at the extreme end of a spectrum?
For one thing, almost all of the twenty adopted
killers whom I have seen had been in therapy (in childhood
and adolescence), often with a number of different therapists,
but the adoption issues were left virtually untouched in their
treatment, and their therapists were not psychoanalytically
oriented. Many therapists tend to minimize adoption as an issue
in child and adolescent treatment. They often unwittingly enter
into a folie a trois with the parents and adoption agency in which
the adoptive family is viewed as being no different from birth
families. Sociologist and adoptive father David Kirk (1964) believes
this "denial of difference" as opposed to a realistic "acknowledgment
of difference" is key to parenting emotionally healthy, adopted
children. Therapists should also be aware that the transference
of adopted children is quite special, and arises from the distorted
parental images of many adoptees. The therapist may come to represent
the birth parents and the patient may be intensely ambivalent,
feeling both a
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